ronne
Nǐ hǎo, yǒu jīn zi ma?
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Have to wonder now if I do meet someone someday if he does have kids, what would I do. I’ve never wanted them and probably certainly wouldn’t want to deal with someone else’s. Guessing that’s probably just going to be a deal breaker. Also wonder how much I’m going to be passed up because I don’t want/can’t have kids. Was lucky enough to find someone else who didn’t want them once, but I’m not sure how many guys are okay with that in general.
Previous girlfriend and I both had agreed we weren't really looking for kids when we started. I was 34 and she was 36 at the time and we were both so embroiled in our careers that it didn't even really seem like an option at the time, and that was fine for our entire stretch really.
There's enough to do in life these days without them, but I'd be lying if I said i didn't think about it more as I got older - that I was missing out or something.