Would rather see the wife live in the sexy gear than have some creeper take those photos. Anytime why wife buys any clothing at all I ask her to show me what she got. 90% of all shoping leads to fashion shows and 90% of all fashion shows lead to sex. A few times during the start or transition of these shows I have my face in the ipad, and she hears the click of the camera, followed by a very playfull "heeeyy" then "just keep my face out of it" Apparently when she was young she sent tit pics to some bf, so my standard response is, "don't worry honey the world has already seen them."