From my experience you've turned her down more often than twice but probably only verbally said "no" twice. When you've rubbed one out you just don't care to put any effort into initiating sex on a night you probably could have had it. But like Deathwing said sometimes I don't feel like doing that song and dance and just take care of myself.
Maybe. I used to always have to initiate and got turned down a lot so stopped going so hard at it - if I was tired I would just rub one out instead.
We typically had sex 7-10 times a week, but it has slowed down this summer. He has been really stressed and unhappy with work. He's writing a book and would really like to focus all his time on that but obviously still needs to work. It has left him feeling really down and in turn, his sex drive has been very low. This has been hard on me because mine is always high. I am constantly initiating and getting turned down, which leaves us both feeling like shit. He's not masturbating often, more as the occasional stress relief which I don't have a problem with that at all, just the lack of sex drive in general. We've talked about it, I told him I wasn't getting my needs met. He's been trying harder and I've been trying to nag about it less and it has been back to every day this past week. It just gets hard, in any relationship when one partner wants sex more than the other.
Out of curiosity, your story seemed to indicate that your wife has been pulling this shit for years, and years. Like 5+ years? That's significantly longer than 8 months. Why is she pregnant, then?
Quite honestly, because it takes about 5 minutes, zero emotional energy, and you don't have to worry about another person's needs. And yes it's selfish, absolutely.lindz_sl said:
I wanted to have a child with her. It is not all bad, only from time to time. When it is bad the problem is that to get a point across she has to go to the extreme, aka divorce.
Let's just assume it is his. WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU GET A CRAZY BITCH IN A BAD RELATIONSHIP PREGNANT???? is kind of what I was getting at.
ugh dude. I feel for you in most respects, but jesus christ did you make a huge mistake.
Guessing it's not weiner issues if he's still masurbating. Stress, confidence issues, depression? Is he still attracted to you?
I'm thinking lendarios is Hispanic. He just couldn't help himself. The need to procreate is strong.
Either that or 9 months ago she finally realized she's not going to land a residency and needed to lock down that alimony and child support ASAP.
