Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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Famm

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If you're going to be pulling out you should keep track of her cycle and use condoms when she's likely to be ovulating. I personally would much rather use condoms than pull out, because you get to blow your load while inside of her. Pulling out and finishing with your hand on her belly is so anticlimactic to me. And just doesn't feel as good as finishing inside, even with the condom.
 
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Famm_sl said:
If you're going to be pulling out you should keep track of her cycle and use condoms when she's likely to be ovulating. I personally would much rather use condoms than pull out, because you get to blow your load while inside of her. Pulling out and finishing with your hand on her belly is so anticlimactic to me. And just doesn't feel as good as finishing inside, even with the condom.
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Your girl won't sit up and put it in her mouth and finish it? I find this method... acceptable.
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Ameraves

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Haven't posted in a while about my situation, and just haven't much felt like talking about it. But I am at a point now where I am seriously considering moving out. Things went from bad, to pretty good, to really shitty in a hurry though. I am at a point now where I am pretty bummed out and totally torn on what to do. The thought of not being in the same house as my kids tears me up though, and I don't know that I can actually do it.

It turns out there was another guy involved. Even though there was nothing physical (and yes I know this for a fact since the guy doesn't even live anywhere near us) it has me pretty broken up. Instead of coming to me with how she was feeling when things were getting tough, she reached out to someone else and some feelings started there between them. At first it was something I thought I could get past, but everytime I think about it I end up getting pretty pissed off.

So now I just need to weigh between trying to get over it and being in the same home as my kids. Or tell her to fuck off, and deal with not being around nearly as much as I would like.

There is a whole lot more detail to it, and if you guys really feel like reading through it I can attempt to try and lay it all out. Reality is I am not even really looking for an answer, cause I don't know that anyone can tell me how to feel about it. Just needed to vent and talk a bit I guess. I haven't talked to my family about it at all, because to them she is perfect and they have her sitting up on this pedestal. Couple that with the fact the there is all kinds of drama going on with my family, and I just didn't want to add to everyone's stress. So I have discussed it with one of my cousin's, but nobody in either of our direct family knows what is going on. So it helps to vent where I can I suppose.
 
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Oh God people are back in this thread supporting rhythm and pull out as effective birth control
 
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I got some meetings to attend for the next few hours here. I will type some stuff up in between and then post it all later tonight.
 
opiate82

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Tenks_sl said:
Oh God people are back in this thread supporting rhythm and pull out as effective birth control
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Yes, for couples who are okay with an oops. And it isn't even recommending so much as "ehhhhh, well if you insist on no contraception this is your best chance, good luck."
 
Khane

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I mean, this is the age of entitlement. Everything someone doesn't like should be made illegal. Condoms should be the first thing to go.
 
opiate82

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Tenks_sl said:
Isn't that male BC pill supposed to hit market in like 2020?
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Last I heard the MBC closest to hitting the market is a shot of some goo they inject into your tubing near the testes that gums up the works for a while. Currently being tested on gorillas.
 
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It is in use actually, in India (and has 15 years of clinical human and animal trials over there). Clinical trials in the U.S started in 2012 and it was actually supposed to be available this year but various delays pushed it to 2017. It is 100% effective in every trial to date and is easily reversible. You might actually Google your city and see if there is a clinical trial going on near you, I don't imagine it'd be hard to get into.
 
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opiate82_sl said:
Yes, for couples who are okay with an oops. And it isn't even recommending so much as "ehhhhh, well if you insist on no contraception this is your best chance, good luck."
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This. They are "fairly effective" methods of birth control. If you are a married couple and getting pregnant wouldn't be the end of the world to you, it's an option that works most of the time, especially the two in conjunction, and it has no unpleasant side effects (unless you beat the odds and get pregnant). Everything has a chance of failure aside from a hysterectomy. It's about how you feel about the other alternatives from a risk vs. reward standpoint.

If you are single and hooking up with random sluts from the bar then you should definitely wear a condom AND pull out and probably do some other shit as well even if she says she's on the pill but knocking up a random bar slut and knocking up your wife are two different things.
 
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The Master_sl said:
It is in use actually, in India (and has 15 years of clinical human and animal trials over there). Clinical trials in the U.S started in 2012 and it was actually supposed to be available this year but various delays pushed it to 2017. It is 100% effective in every trial to date and is easily reversible. You might actually Google your city and see if there is a clinical trial going on near you, I don't imagine it'd be hard to get into.
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I'm really wondering how they do these trials. They have to have a control group, and they certainly can't give the control group sham birth control and not tell them about it.
 
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Xequecal_sl said:
I'm really wondering how they do these trials. They have to have a control group, and they certainly can't give the control group sham birth control and not tell them about it.
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Theoretically you could conduct the study only with people willing to have children. They probably just go without a control group though. I don't think there is much concern about the placebo effect.
 
iannis

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You wouldn't neccessarily have to have a control group to study the effectiveness and side effects of a specific birth control, because you're not looking so much at how well it works (%age wise in a large population in contrast to X) as you are looking for IF it works for individuals and if there are any consequential effects, forseen or unforseen. A control group wouldn't be entirely relevant to answering certain sets of questions. You're looking for basic effectiveness and safety and consequence. You can make very fair statistical observations which would fill the role of a control group, if you wanted one for other data.

Now if/when you are able to determine that it is safe through those trials then you can conduct further studies which do require control groups to gauge more nuanaced aspects of the regimen.
 
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