Call me a pussy but sex without an actual emotional connection is far worse. I'm sure the pay-for-sex gig would be fun for a year or so but I don't see how it's luster wouldn't die out.
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DickTrickle
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For the type of guys who use escorts nearly exclusively (or want to), I doubt an emotional connection is all that important. Personally, I don't know how it wouldn't bother me that it was all fake, but for some people they can really buy into the delusion (ala the girlfriend experience).
iannis
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Well man if you're going to a call girl to find love you're looking in the wrong place.
If you're going to a call girl for a fun night you might or might not be looking in the right place.
It's not like it's something that you should aspire to. heh. But sometimes you want someone else in the room when you masturbate.
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If you're going to a call girl for a fun night you might or might not be looking in the right place.
It's not like it's something that you should aspire to. heh. But sometimes you want someone else in the room when you masturbate.
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Xequecal
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That was kind of the point I was getting at. If you're in a position where image is important, you get an escort so you can fuck and then she'll leave without causing any public drama or ratting you out to your wife/girlfriend/family/employer. But if you're a single guy and not in such a position, it just doesn't make sense. Especially with what Gavinmad is saying. The whole point of paying for sex is to NOT have to deal with a ton of bullshit.
Soygen
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Or to have depraved and rough sex with a super hot escort. It's not hard to imagine why this may be fun, regardless of whether your image is important or not.
Frenzied Wombat
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The Ritz Carlton hotel in Dallas has at least 2-3 high priced escorts floating the bar during prime time. These chicks are 9's, easy, and are dressed in a sexy yet sophisticated manner. Supposedly they cost $1000 for a few hours of happy time. It's certainly been tempting..
Gavinmad
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Except it's not just about the whole 'paying them to leave' thing. It's like the difference between getting a back rub from your girlfriend vs getting a full body massage from a licensed therapist. The sex isn't just good, it's amazing. You aren't just paying some random chick for sex, you're hiring a professional. The ones who do it for longer than a year or two aren't just doing it for the money, although obviously the money is good. They're doing it because they love fucking, and they get pretty goddamn good at it. I mean we're not talking a full on kama sutra experience every single time, but they love their work and they know what they're doing.
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You obviously have your pre-concieved notions about escorts. I guess that's OK for your purposes, but you should know you're wrong.
Read J49's dating pool thread. It's not true that there is no emotional connection.
I have read it. The emotional connection is to his money and he falls in love with any whore who queefs her dirty pussy his way.
DickTrickle
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I imagine clients can form an emotional connection because everything is on their terms, so they create the ideal fantasy they've always craved. They can be completely selfish and have the woman be whoever he wants her to be and have her do whatever he wants without any effort on his part (aside from money). Plus, the woman is always in the mode of pleasing him and expressing pleasure, so that probably boosts the ego -- no need to worry about someone else's wants and needs. I imagine that's the appeal, especially on the higher end. Essentially, such men are princesses. Non-financially motivated human interactions require some give and take and no one is going to be exactly the person you imagine as the ideal. Buying for the fantasy is worth it because they can maintain the delusion enough such that it doesn't affect their enjoyment.
The issue is the financial transaction aspect. Disregard the law here for a second mistresses of fabulously wealthy people (the old Clippers owner here comes to mind) treat their mistresses still as girlfriends. But instead of ever having to worry about what she wants to do you always do what you want and she is always pretty much forced into agreeing with you because you are her source of income. It appears the facade and delusion is strong enough because these wealthy men are willing to risk and lose much simply for it.
But to have a pay-for-Girlfriend you need to be way more wealthy than the people in this thread. We're talking you need multi-millions. So I suppose there is a key difference between that and escort service. I just don't see how it wouldn't get horribly hollow and unfulfilling after even a short period of time.
But to have a pay-for-Girlfriend you need to be way more wealthy than the people in this thread. We're talking you need multi-millions. So I suppose there is a key difference between that and escort service. I just don't see how it wouldn't get horribly hollow and unfulfilling after even a short period of time.
DickTrickle
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Yeah, they can't have the pay-for-gf all the time but they can have it once a week or something like that, which is better than diving into the utter cesspool of horrible, shallow, bitchy, annoying, greedy, slutty women of which 99.9% of all women are a part of. That's fulfillment, baby!
DickTrickle
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I'm not upset, I just find it all somewhat odd and interesting. I don't think the characterizations I've been making are inaccurate; I just have a hard time relating. I honestly do think for many of these people it is actually more fulfilling than trying to have a real relationship would be (as others have either said or alluded to). It's somewhat fascinating, even.
Frenzied Wombat
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I've heard that if you want the no hassle "girlfriend experience" there are a multitude of college girls on Seekingarrangement.com that are more than happy to be a part-time girlfriend for approximately a $1000-$2000 monthly allowance. There was some Lisa Ling report on CNN.com about the phenomena about a month back.
That sounds really odd. If you're willing to sell your body off like that why not just strip and make more money without having to touch old man wood? Maybe the chicks don't it aren't really that hot. Dunno.
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From what I understand (by reading reddit's AMAs and AskReddits) is that pretty much all strip clubs have strippers who are willing to have sex for money but not all strippers will have sex for money
I also found out strippers have to pay the clubs to dance there
I also found out strippers have to pay the clubs to dance there
DickTrickle
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Probably also a different personality type involved. It's one thing to have a casual sexual relationship that you get paid for versus being on stage and on display constantly. A stripper basically always has to be in full on sexy mode but a prostitute fake girlfriend doesn't necessarily (though I guess that depends on the client).