Based on the interviews they gave on the documentary, while hookers basically have to bang multiple guys, including the physically repulsive ones, these chicks are looking for a single guy they wouldn't "mind" banging while simultaneously getting their bills paid. The chicks on the show basically rationalized their hooking the same way "Why should I date some loser college guy that has no money and can't take me anywhere, when I can get some stable half-decent guy that won't monopolize all my time, appreciates me, floats my way through college, and takes me to expensive places/restaurants".That sounds really odd. If you're willing to sell your body off like that why not just strip and make more money without having to touch old man wood? Maybe the chicks don't it aren't really that hot. Dunno.
His posts definitely leans towards the marriage side of things instead of all social interaction, however if you play it out to its inevitable conclusion it's not all that feasible. Being single at 40+, hell even 30+ years old usually relegates you to hanging out with people much younger than you, or being the third wheel on holidays, and other social events. Your buddies get tired about hearing about shit you'd normally talk about with a significant other, or even worse you don't have any outlet for those emotions at all. There is a reason people go through multiple wives and girlfriends despite the hurt, and it's definitely not all social pressure.....Pretty sure you can be social, gregarious, have friends and shit without being married. He's specifically talking about the social pressures to be married. Living alone does not mean living in isolation from all other people.
Unless I am completely mistaken and everything he's saying about marriage and all that shit is actually about social interaction in general.
Every point you made in this post was a form of social pressure....His posts definitely leans towards the marriage side of things instead of all social interaction, however if you play it out to its inevitable conclusion it's not all that feasible. Being single at 40+, hell even 30+ years old usually relegates you to hanging out with people much younger than you, or being the third wheel on holidays, and other social events. Your buddies get tired about hearing about shit you'd normally talk about with a significant other, or even worse you don't have any outlet for those emotions at all. There is a reason people go through multiple wives and girlfriends despite the hurt, and it's definitely not all social pressure.....
Perhaps we can give this conversation some context then. What in your mind is not social pressure? People are built for relationships whether you believe in creation of evolution. Since the dawn of humanity we have banded together. If you call sharing emotions with people, and not wanting to live in isolation social pressure then I'm not sure how to respond. I'm not sure I even understand your position. So when you're sitting at home alone on any given day and happen to be bored/lonely you consider that social pressure? That society inflicted such emotions upon you, and you would otherwise be perfectly content living completely alone every day?Every point you made in this post was a form of social pressure....
And you keep pretending you need to have a singular relationship with the opposite sex to not be alone. You do realize I have a ton of friends right? Just because I'm single doesn't mean I'm alone.Perhaps we can give this conversation some context then. What in your mind is not social pressure? People are built for relationships whether you believe in creation of evolution. Since the dawn of humanity we have banded together. If you call sharing emotions with people, and not wanting to live in isolation social pressure then I'm not sure how to respond. I'm not sure I even understand your position. So when you're sitting at home alone on any given day and happen to be bored/lonely you consider that social pressure? That society inflicted such emotions upon you, and you would otherwise be perfectly content living completely alone every day?
This is very binary thinking. Choice A: Married! Choice B:FOREVER ALONE!!!Perhaps we can give this conversation some context then. What in your mind is not social pressure? People are built for relationships whether you believe in creation of evolution. Since the dawn of humanity we have banded together. If you call sharing emotions with people, and not wanting to live in isolation social pressure then I'm not sure how to respond. I'm not sure I even understand your position. So when you're sitting at home alone on any given day and happen to be bored/lonely you consider that social pressure? That society inflicted such emotions upon you, and you would otherwise be perfectly content living completely alone every day?
If I wasn't so frightened of STD's I would have been banging hookers long ago.You seem upset that people want to bang hookers? It's ok, man. Let those guys worry about their 'fulfillment'.
It's the oldest profession in the world for a reason.
Why are you frightened of STI's?If I wasn't so frightened of STD's I would have been banging hookers long ago.
I dunno, as of a March 30th update by the CDC on their website, they still call them STD's. -shrug- I've never heard of them called STI's.Side question, when did they become STI's instead of STD's? I feel like I missed something...everyone says STI now.
There are at least two reasons people think they are different: Curability: Some people use the term STD to refer to illnesses that can't be cured (like genital warts) and STI to refer to illnesses that can be cured (like Chlamydia).