Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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Soygen

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Yes and they almost all certainly have to grind on thousands of strangers a week, even if they aren't fucking them. Sounds like one old man dong might be less stressful.
 

Frenzied Wombat

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That sounds really odd. If you're willing to sell your body off like that why not just strip and make more money without having to touch old man wood? Maybe the chicks don't it aren't really that hot. Dunno.
Based on the interviews they gave on the documentary, while hookers basically have to bang multiple guys, including the physically repulsive ones, these chicks are looking for a single guy they wouldn't "mind" banging while simultaneously getting their bills paid. The chicks on the show basically rationalized their hooking the same way "Why should I date some loser college guy that has no money and can't take me anywhere, when I can get some stable half-decent guy that won't monopolize all my time, appreciates me, floats my way through college, and takes me to expensive places/restaurants".
 

DickTrickle

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I hope the people hiring those princesses aren't the same ones complaining about the dating field being filled with princesses.
 

Ortega

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Pretty sure you can be social, gregarious, have friends and shit without being married. He's specifically talking about the social pressures to be married. Living alone does not mean living in isolation from all other people.

Unless I am completely mistaken and everything he's saying about marriage and all that shit is actually about social interaction in general.
His posts definitely leans towards the marriage side of things instead of all social interaction, however if you play it out to its inevitable conclusion it's not all that feasible. Being single at 40+, hell even 30+ years old usually relegates you to hanging out with people much younger than you, or being the third wheel on holidays, and other social events. Your buddies get tired about hearing about shit you'd normally talk about with a significant other, or even worse you don't have any outlet for those emotions at all. There is a reason people go through multiple wives and girlfriends despite the hurt, and it's definitely not all social pressure.....
 

Famm

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His posts definitely leans towards the marriage side of things instead of all social interaction, however if you play it out to its inevitable conclusion it's not all that feasible. Being single at 40+, hell even 30+ years old usually relegates you to hanging out with people much younger than you, or being the third wheel on holidays, and other social events. Your buddies get tired about hearing about shit you'd normally talk about with a significant other, or even worse you don't have any outlet for those emotions at all. There is a reason people go through multiple wives and girlfriends despite the hurt, and it's definitely not all social pressure.....
Every point you made in this post was a form of social pressure....
 

Ortega

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Every point you made in this post was a form of social pressure....
Perhaps we can give this conversation some context then. What in your mind is not social pressure? People are built for relationships whether you believe in creation of evolution. Since the dawn of humanity we have banded together. If you call sharing emotions with people, and not wanting to live in isolation social pressure then I'm not sure how to respond. I'm not sure I even understand your position. So when you're sitting at home alone on any given day and happen to be bored/lonely you consider that social pressure? That society inflicted such emotions upon you, and you would otherwise be perfectly content living completely alone every day?
 

Khane

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Perhaps we can give this conversation some context then. What in your mind is not social pressure? People are built for relationships whether you believe in creation of evolution. Since the dawn of humanity we have banded together. If you call sharing emotions with people, and not wanting to live in isolation social pressure then I'm not sure how to respond. I'm not sure I even understand your position. So when you're sitting at home alone on any given day and happen to be bored/lonely you consider that social pressure? That society inflicted such emotions upon you, and you would otherwise be perfectly content living completely alone every day?
And you keep pretending you need to have a singular relationship with the opposite sex to not be alone. You do realize I have a ton of friends right? Just because I'm single doesn't mean I'm alone.
 

Famm

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Perhaps we can give this conversation some context then. What in your mind is not social pressure? People are built for relationships whether you believe in creation of evolution. Since the dawn of humanity we have banded together. If you call sharing emotions with people, and not wanting to live in isolation social pressure then I'm not sure how to respond. I'm not sure I even understand your position. So when you're sitting at home alone on any given day and happen to be bored/lonely you consider that social pressure? That society inflicted such emotions upon you, and you would otherwise be perfectly content living completely alone every day?
This is very binary thinking. Choice A: Married! Choice B:FOREVER ALONE!!!
 

Ignatius

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Side question, when did they become STI's instead of STD's? I feel like I missed something...everyone says STI now.

And I agree there is definitely a lot of pressure to get married, mostly from family and my friend's spouses.

I'm becoming the odd duck in my group of friends that isnt married and isn't really dating, or at least nothing you'd consider to be working towards marriage/long term. We still have do a lot as a group, and I see them on the reg, it's just around their spouse/significant others schedule and in some cases permission. I certainly dont agree with having to be married or be lonely.

We're all fairly young (mid 20's), but I've become part of the minority when it comes to single vs married. Cant wait for the with kids/without kids change.
 

Tarrant

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Side question, when did they become STI's instead of STD's? I feel like I missed something...everyone says STI now.
I dunno, as of a March 30th update by the CDC on their website, they still call them STD's. -shrug- I've never heard of them called STI's.

More research, CDC also says

There are at least two reasons people think they are different: Curability: Some people use the term STD to refer to illnesses that can't be cured (like genital warts) and STI to refer to illnesses that can be cured (like Chlamydia).
 

iannis

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We're trying to call them infections now instead of disease. They're really not a disease. They're just a specific type of infection.

Well, they ARE a disease. A moral disease that effects degenerates and negroes. hohoho.

I know, it's weird. STI still sounds weird to me. Hell, I still call them VD half the time. And that's like 2 generations old terminology.
 

iannis

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It's one of those weird little things that'll take 50 years to change. It's a niggle. Like EKG --> ECG. Or Fallopian Tube. I've heard about 3 different things you're supposed to call the fallopian tube besides fallopian.
 

The Master

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OKCupid chart on height is all you need to see how important it is. Guys add, on average, two inches to their height on online profiles except when they need a little bit more to hit six feet (like, a 5'9" guy might say 6'0", but a 5'8" guy won't go above 5'10"). It matters a ton. You could go get real studies on it to, but fuck that, the OKTrends blog has the same data and is much more readable.

Also I'm sad bros. Things with my ex-girlfriend went from cordial FWB to total non-contact. Maybe it'll pass. I'm still married and the wife still has a hot girlfriend, so it isn't all bad, but it always hurts to lose people.
 

Khane

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I've found that total no contact is always the best way to get over a break up. That whole cordial thing just seems to drag out the inevitable, which is one or the other still having residual feelings and the one who doesn't having to cut the cord anyway because it's obvious being just friends isn't possible.
 

TJT

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Speaking of such things. Finished moving to my new place yesterday.

SO IT BEGINS. No-Contact in full swing. Time to find some casual bullshit flings to occupy my time.
 

iannis

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No contact is best. When it's over, it's over. The thing is the thing.

I can only imagine the nagging hell of being divorced with children in common.