Think about it for a sec though. Which one do you really want raising your kid, your hormonal rampaging unhappy wife that "has to" be told to clean up because she is so unhappy she's intentionally pissing you off, or someone who will sit on the floor and cheerfully play with your kid for 10 hours a day like its a fucking job to be happy and teach the kid shit, because it is her job?
Time for fudge but no time for picking shit off the ground?
Exactly this. If you can find a good live-in with a good set of morals and strong work ethic you've struck gold. Most of these women have a far better maternal instinct and domestic skillset than most American woman. Most moms these days will just give their kid an Ipad and go off and do their own thing. Find one of these foreign women that have raised and/or cared for gaggles of siblings and she'll sit with your kid for hours drawing, reading, building lego and she won't even break a sweat. Watching my childhood live-in cook, clean, sew, and take care of me and my three sisters without a peep of complaint or difficulty has definitely caused me to have ZERO sympathy for today's stay at home moms that whine/complain how difficult their job is.
Really depends, under the rules they are supposed to cook and clean "for the kids." So you shouldn't have them scrubbing the shit stains out of your tighty whiteys.
My wife.
Don't give out pics or you will be called a creep invading someone's privacy....
That's bad because...oh I know you wanted a long term relationship style bang maid?
