It isn't a question of blaming them, it's a question of damage control. If someone is obese, you help them cut down their access to KFC and big macs. If someone is a cokehead, you keep them the hell away from cocaine. And then once you've instituted some short term damage control, you can look at addressing the larger issue of why they eat or snort themselves into an early grave. America is like that cokehead, locked in the bathroom with his last 8ball while everyone is outside trying to convince him to come out and let them drive him to rehab. You know there's no way he's coming out until every last grain of that shit has gone up his nose, it's always gonna be 'nah, I'm good, I just need another line, then I'll be fine, really!' As a country, you've shown time and time again that you just can't fucking handle guns, so access to them should be restricted to prevent collateral damage until the underlying cultural and socioeconomic problems can be addressed.