about 8 years ago i went through a bout of ulcertive colitus and in a six week period i went from 170 to 120 pounds, i am in my second week of a similar flareup, right now i am on steroids to calm the inflammation, whether its the pain, the oxy i am taking to fight the pain or what, my sex drive has plummented to a big fat ZERO, fridays date with capri was a disappointment and i have been avoiding her since, however feeling bad for her i did wire her $20 yesterday, she says she understands but still wants to see me, i on the other hand have no desire to spend time with her, it amazing how annoying she can be when i don't want to have sex with her