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My daughter goes to school with a "militant lesbian" with two moms that fits every stereotype and goes around talking trash about all the straights around her. My daughter thinks she is psycho. Her and I have discussed boys before and she is quite infatuated with many different boys. During all of these issues she has been having lately she out of the blue asks me if I would be mad at her if she was a lesbian. I say no but that she is 13 and doesn't even know who she is inside yet and has problems loving herself so let's take it one step at a time. She agrees that is probably a good idea. I ask her why this has come up. She said a girl looked pretty the other day at school so now the lesbian girl is saying she must be a lesbian.I had my older girls over for the weekend, they are 15 and 16. I ask them how school was, and the 16 year old (who at the moment claims to be bisexual) tells me two of her friends broke up. The names both sound male, so I ask just to make sure and say "oh so they are gay?". She replies with "no, they are pan sexual". Me "What the fuck does that mean?" She tried to explain it that they are attracted to personalities, and not gender. That sort of boggles my mind, and I was sort of at a loss for how to reply.
Seriously, what the fuck is that? I seriously try to consider myself pretty open minded, and have always told my kids I love them no matter what. But this whole new wave of sexuality and non gender specific shit has me totally baffled as to how to handle it.
I don't care who people fuck and what label they want to give themselves. I am sick and tired though of all these identity issues being such a big issue that now 13 year old girls have that to deal with on top of their standard puberty and social anxiety issues. They have to pick a "side" at school or risk alienating some other girl. Just tired of it.