Hindus I don't think are evangelical, no. But dude I work in a big law firm with 95% white people in TX. They're all either christian or atheist and either way you don't want to be discussing religion with them.I figured you'd be disbelieving of the part where there are reasonable muslims. Really, you don't think there are non evangelical hindus?
I can help implement one. What's your director's contact info?I say whatever i want at work, they don't have a retard rickshaw
I get this with the big asian groups. I go into Hong Kong supermarket etc and they all stare at me like I'm about to drop my pants and take a dump in the middle of the aisle. It's understandable, and I do my best not to treat minorities any differently than I treat anybody else. I don't know how successful I am at that in their perception.Preface this by saying this isn't a complaint just a general experience I had.
So my wife's friend was having an anniversary dinner. We were invited and attended. My wife's friend is black and it turned out we were the only white people in the room of maybe 30 people. I somewhat saw the other side of the coin because the way people introduced themselves towards me and communicated to me was wildly, wildly different than the way they were interacting with everyone else. At first I thought it was because they didn't know me and they knew all the other people but I gathered many of these people were meeting for the first time. I could see if I wasn't a majority and instead was a minority where these situations were more common this would start to become an exhausting process where everyday you see people interacting with "their people" differently than interacting with me.
They tried but you could tell it was forced when they were interacting with me. It is impossible to quantify but you could tell they were just trying very hard to have this forced interaction with me. I imagine once you step over the line of "Ok make sure you're not acting different around them" you are actually, in fact, acting differently. Because you have the presence of mind to try to not be different.I get this with the big asian groups. I go into Hong Kong supermarket etc and they all stare at me like I'm about to drop my pants and take a dump in the middle of the aisle. It's understandable, and I do my best not to treat minorities any differently than I treat anybody else. I don't know how successful I am at that in their perception.
Oh jeez...people here at work are NUTS about politics. Religion not so much, but politics, that's all these guys talk about. When asked I usually change the subject, but with Trump they want to really know my opinion. I give it, and they flip out, or tell me how wrong I am. I mean these guys are REALLY upset to the point I walk away because I really wonder if they would think it's worth getting their nose broke from striking me 1st. I honestly walk away laughing at them.Not trying to be adversarial here, but why the fuck are you talking about politics at work? The only values you have that should matter at work are: do you get your work done? Great. I'd wager nobody at my law firm has any clue about my politics or religious views or anything because I never talk about it. If everyone would do the same...
How do you dress and what sort of face do you make when you meet people? If it gives a bad first impression, why don't you change that?
I mean... do you think white people don't watch what they say?
Thats kind of a shitty work environment then.. I'd probably evade those questions rather than answer. But if they push for answers they deserve the answers. On the other hand you don't want to create drama for yourself.Oh jeez...people here at work are NUTS about politics. Religion not so much, but politics, that's all these guys talk about. When asked I usually change the subject, but with Trump they want to really know my opinion. I give it, and they flip out, or tell me how wrong I am. I mean these guys are REALLY upset to the point I walk away because I really wonder if they would think it's worth getting their nose broke from striking me 1st. I honestly walk away laughing at them.
So you're a thug-dressed scowling gigantic black man, and you wonder why people have a certain first impression... lolI scowl. Always have. Just my resting face. Habit over the years of trying to look tough I guess. I dress pretty much how you think a thug would dress. Hoodie, T shirt, Jeans, Timbs. It's what I wear. We have no dress code, but it obviously turns people off. I'm comfortable. I give up so much daily in my mannerism and attitude...let me just dress the way I want guys. You don't see me complaining about your ripped up shirts and crappy sneakers.
Whats Roxbury? And if you look like you do and dress like you do, you probably have to try ten times as hard to not appear threatening to people and therefore people think your "tone" is a lot worse than it is.Do I think white people watch what they say? Here at my job not nearly on the level I do. Twice I have been to HR this year because someone said they felt threatened by my tone. My fuckin TONE! Thank goodness others were around. I also have to stay totally out of conversations about growing up. Soon as you mention Roxbury people start asking you all sorta questions that are totally just silly and inappropriate.
Thats kinda messed up.The older white guys here are so politically incorrect it's hilarious. We have an old dude here I'm told he used to call me "that negro in the cube by the windows". (I HOPE it's negro) Now I AM that negro in the cube by the windows...so I find it funny. Plus I know, he knows no better, and he honestly means no harm or malice. That was just their time what you called black folk. Plus I care less. I went and introduced myself to him making sure he heard my name a bazillion times, and he's cool now.
I was half-expecting you to cry at the end. Reminds me of the episode of Tyra in the fat suit where she cried at the endPreface this by saying this isn't a complaint just a general experience I had.
So my wife's friend was having an anniversary dinner. We were invited and attended. My wife's friend is black and it turned out we were the only white people in the room of maybe 30 people. I somewhat saw the other side of the coin because the way people introduced themselves towards me and communicated to me was wildly, wildly different than the way they were interacting with everyone else. At first I thought it was because they didn't know me and they knew all the other people but I gathered many of these people were meeting for the first time. I could see if I wasn't a majority and instead was a minority where these situations were more common this would start to become an exhausting process where everyday you see people interacting with "their people" differently than interacting with me.
Whoa, settle down man. Please don't hurt us!Twice I have been to HR this year because someone said they felt threatened by my tone. My fuckin TONE!
Can you please infract Brahma for the threatening tone of his post?Whoa, settle down man. Please don't hurt us!
It's a part of Boston, maybe old white people are afraid of now? I don't know, my mother spent most of her childhood hanging around there and mission hill. As teenagers me and my buddies would hang on Dudley street/Warren street area. I don't know if Brahma is trying to come off hard or something, but Roxbury is like any major cities urban area. It's nothing like Middle East Baltimore or Southside Chicago.Whats Roxbury? And if you look like you do and dress like you do, you probably have to try ten times as hard to not appear threatening to people and therefore people think your "tone" is a lot worse than it is.