Honestly, no matter how hard you try you are always going to compare your current woman to women in your past. As much as you may try not to, it's going to happen. I figured out over the years that it's also never a fair comparison because for whatever reason we tend to mostly remember the great things in past women & relationships while blocking out the bad, and a lot of times it's easy to only dwell on the negative in the present. There's still a small part of me that looks back fondly at every woman in my past that I spent significant time with, but it seems that the longer that I'm with my wife, those past memories become less and less frequent as we make great new memories together and we focus on the future of our family.