Recommend a dating site

Downloaded tinder even though I'm in a relationship, swiped about 300 pictures, got accepted by 3 women, 2 of which were spam, seems about par for the course thank god I have money, obviously this app is for guys hotter than myself.

Tinder is perfect if you can put together a couple good profile pics. You can swipe nothing but 8's and 9's instead of putting thought into composing a message and you don't get rejected 30 times in a row and get discouraged. When you get a match you message from a position of confidence. I'm sure in a couple months the fat dumb dumbs will invade and take it over, but for now it's high quality, at least in my area.

That article was cool but also a little sad to read. I felt bad for the guy. He was smart enough to get all these women to come after him, and then he went on 55 dates and only had 3 second dates and 1 third date. Poor, awkward, nerdy bastard. Eventually it worked out for him but that had to be a brutal stretch.

I wish I had the patience to do that. I have the technical skills required and would love to see the type of women I would find based on that as an experiment. I generally don't even look at match % when deciding if I want to message someone or not.

Reading that was really depressing. He should have spent the time improving his people skills I guess. I have never tried online match making, a 1000 questions? I don't think I asked my last girlfriend a 1000 questions total.

I only clicked on the thread since I moved to a metro area and was thinking about trying it. Dunno, kinda scary.

Online dating isn't scary at all. It's what you make of it. It can be annoying clicking through profile after profile reading the same mundane generic shit over and over again "I love confident men who make me laugh, my pup beau is my pride and joy and I enjoy hiking and cooking" but I wouldn't say it's scary." Oh really? You like confident men who make you laugh? What a fucking revelation...

That dude used his data to answer questions and then weight them appropriately to attract the types of women he wanted. Simply answering the questions wouldn't have worked that way. He gathered the data, divided women into distinct groups, picked the groups he wanted to date and answered his questions the way they answered theirs. This showed him at the top of their search lists because he was a super high % match for them. He then crafted two profiles, one for each of the groups he was interested in. The obvious problem with that is sure, you'll get the date, and then when they meet you they'll realize you were nothing like you pretended to be.

All fat chicks apparently love hiking.

McCheese_sl said:

All fat chicks apparently love hiking.

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It's a long hike from the parking lot to the counter at McD's.

McCheese_sl said:

All fat chicks apparently love hiking.

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Every single fat chick on those sites Exercises 3-4 times per week and loves being active. It's like they forgot they put pictures up while they're writing the profile.

I'm married now so could give a fuck about online dating, but you are talking about the bottom of the barrel of women.
Even if you have just a little confidence, you can date a different woman everyday if you wanted too.

Also on those profiles if you don't like chunky women, make sure it always says fit or athletic. Everything else is going to be an ape.
From my stint of online dating after my first divorce, if you message them never ask for anything. Don't ask anyone out on a date, just tell them to meet you somewhere like a bar, or Coffee shop.

These women will pretty much do whatever you want they have such poor self image, and are really desperate for anyone. It really doesn't matter what there profile says.


For websites, and I can only talk for my own area of Texas. My friend does really well on POF, he's met some really hot sluts, and he seems to hook up quite frequently.
I was acutelly surprised at the women he met on that site, although they're all retards.

If you are looking to really date someone, you just need to get a wider group of friends, and branch out your hobbies.
Anything from working out at the gym, to joining a Movie group will net you better results in the long run for an actual girlfriend.

If you are just looking to have shitloads of sex tho, those online dating sites are where it is at. You'll never meet as many diffrent women as easily as that.

Borzak_sl said:

I don't think I asked my last girlfriend a 1000 questions total.

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Yeah, showing an interest is totally gross and stupid.

Column_sl said:

I'm married now so could give a fuck about online dating, but you are talking about the bottom of the barrel of women.

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My experience was totally different. Maybe it says something more about the kind of women you're going after. Then again, I didn't do the shotgun approach to online dating, so maybe I was able to filter enough of those people out.

Women and their general physical fitness level just baffle me sometimes. I have facebook friends from highschool that to look at their pictures, they are a total lardass but then they post pictures from running 5Ks and crap like that. My wife has a friend who apparently works out all the time, all she does is post about going to the gym, or to spin class, or whatever and she is probably beyond what you would consider chubby if you looked at her, and probably closer to the obese category, and has been for years with no real change.

On the flip side, I don't know any guys that workout regularly or do a lot of running(5Ks 10Ks, etc) that look anywhere close to fat.

That's because guys actually work out, whereas women just talk about working out.

Also, when a guy "works out", he actually works. "Running a 5k" to a guy means just that, running. "Running a 5k" to a fat woman means walking and chatting for 3 hours.

My experience was totally different. Maybe it says something more about the kind of women you're going after.

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Doubt it, Women are pretty desperate if they are on those sites. Could care less about there excuses that they work all the time etc.
Of the 20 women I dated from online dating, I wouldn't consider anyone worth more then a month of being with. Maybe I just have higher expectations, or I see through all there lies, and baggage pretty quickly.

One thing you have to expect, if you met her from online dating she is definitely dating more then one guy. I don't care how much you think you know her, I can almost say for certain talking to allot of women about this that it is the case.

As long as you realize that is going on, then nothing can really bother you about online dating.

Column, you were dating bartenders and hairdressers. That's why your experience turned out that way. I date medical doctors and attorneys. Different type of woman. They still fuck, but I have to take them out somewhere classy instead of the local dive for a pitcher of beer.

Desperation and online dating don't go hand in hand. Saying every woman on a dating site is desperate is ridiculous. Sounds to me just by the way you're talking you only care about the physical aspects of a woman and you went for all the trashcan dumpster whores who had nothing but mirror glam shots, duck face selfies and retarded pictures of themselves driving their car (Why the fuck do so many women take pictures of themselves in their fucking car?)

Funny thing is when you put effort into finding something worthwhile you'll date women who aren't worthless. It's really frustrating though because you have to wade through an endless sea of losers.