The Ask Kuriin, A Gay Man, Anything Thread

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Yes, surprisingly, gay women are uncomplicated and easy to figure out.
 

OneofOne

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ITT: Kuriin being overly sensitive about an older gay man telling it how it is.
 

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The fact that these two can't agree on what a bear is brings this entire thread into question. Now we're going to have to see a picture of Kuriin with a dick in his mouth that says rerolled on the side to prove that he's not whatever the gay version of a mangina is.
 

Erronius

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Haha!

How about stereotypes about lesbians though? Those are all true right?
Years ago I would occasionally bump into this lesbian couple at the bar; they were an absolute riot. They were butch as hell, wore mens clothing and actually drove an old beat up pickup truck. One of their favorite things apparently was to harass straights, and they'd often use"how ya doing, Breeders?"instead of hello while making disgusted faces. They were pretty funny when they got drunk though and them sitting down at your table kind of meant that they didn't ACTUALLY think you were a shitty person, but you'd then get to watch them openly mock the people that they did think were shitty.

They were like a butch lesbian version of Statler and Waldorf, and their drunken insults were a sight to behold.
 

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The fact that these two can't agree on what a bear is brings this entire thread into question. Now we're going to have to see a picture of Kuriin with a dick in his mouth that says rerolled on the side to prove that he's not whatever the gay version of a mangina is.
I can't believe people have believed anything this guy has said. Everything he's posted sounds like a straight man's warped perception of gay relationships. Anal with no lube? Falling asleep with his dick inside his lover? People lie about the dumbest shit on the internet.
 

Blackyce

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My wiki entry is severely lacking? What the fuck are you talking about? You agreed with everything I just said. There is no "stereotype" in the gay community because there are so many categories. You have the effeminate, the bear, the straight-acting, the leather, etc. No one is shunned. I'm sorry to hear that you have this idea in your head. There is, however, a stereotype OF the gay community from people outside -- and that is flamboyancy.
The bear community formed because back in 1987, gay men who didn't conform to the stereotype where shunned or made to feel outcast and different. And yes, today people are still ostracized from different parts of the gay community for being fat or hairy or nelly or whatever. We are not this all inclusive community that loves one another, much the opposite. In fact you still have Lesbians that HATE men. If you think we are this big fabulous community in some kind of giant love fest, you're definitely mistaken.

As to your edit, when did I ever say I choose to be fat to look masculine? Where did that come from. I have thought of myself as a bear in the past not because I am fat, which I am, (I wasn't though back in 1987 when the whole bear thing started. Back then I was 6' and 175lbs) but because I don't follow whatever the latest gay fad/stereotype is. I am me, a 47yr old fat guy who likes things like having a goatee and mustache, Heavy Metal and comic books. Who's been into Sci Fi since Star Wars in 1977, who loves D&D and has been playing video games since Space Invaders. Those are just a few things that make me who I am.

What made a person a bear is deciding not to conform to the gay stereotypes and continuing to be themselves.

I'm sounding like a broken record now as I think I've repeated this for the third time.
 

Blackyce

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I can't believe people have believed anything this guy has said. Everything he's posted sounds like a straight man's warped perception of gay relationships. Anal with no lube? Falling asleep with his dick inside his lover? People lie about the dumbest shit on the internet.
Well some people do it with just spit but damn that's why more pain than I'm interested in. As for falling asleep with his dick in his lover and waking up with it still there, I have no clue how he does that because my dick never stayed that hard after cumming, even when I was young and in my prime.
 

Erronius

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You should have told them then.
Why? I'm not about to get hung up over something that was clearly erroneous AND not intended to be an insult. This might come as a surprise to you, but then again you seemed to have been confused by something as simple as white bread being served with BBQ in the BBQ thread.

My bad though, I should have made it abundantly clear that the comment wasn't made as a serious insult instead of thinking that people could infer that from what I wrote themselves.
 

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Why? I'm not about to get hung up over something that was clearly erroneous AND not intended to be an insult. This might come as a surprise to you, but then again you seemed to have been confused by something as simple as white bread being served with BBQ in the BBQ thread.

My bad though, I should have made it abundantly clear that the comment wasn't made as a serious insult instead of thinking that people could infer that from what I wrote themselves.
Look dude, I'm sorry your lesbian friends aren't funny. Boisterous and rude, maybe, but you're sure didn't demonstrate anything funny. Did they go up to black people and call them the n-word while making disgusted faces? Funny shit!

You had no problems explaining the white bread in the other thread. It's either a perfectly acceptable question or it isn't, you don't get to treat it as both when it suits you.
 

Erronius

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Look dude, I'm sorry your lesbian friends aren't funny. Boisterous and rude, maybe, but you're sure didn't demonstrate anything funny.
That wasn't an example of any "hilarious" comment, nor was it meant to be. You're conflating two separate things, willfully, and that's on you.

You had no problems explaining the white bread in the other thread. It's either a perfectly acceptable question or it isn't, you don't get to treat it as both when it suits you.
One stupid question I have the patience for. Following me to another thread and asking yet another retarded question...hey I have an idea, how about you stop asking fucking retarded questions?
 

Kuriin

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I can't believe people have believed anything this guy has said. Everything he's posted sounds like a straight man's warped perception of gay relationships. Anal with no lube? Falling asleep with his dick inside his lover? People lie about the dumbest shit on the internet.
You're an idiot, we already got that point across. I never said anal with no lube. Saliva and precum is some of the best lubricant out there.

Cad: Bears are known to being slightly hefty or even bigger. It doesn't mean FAT. It just means that they can also be really muscular. Depending on who you ask, it can be either overweight or hairy or a combination of both. My physical therapist is a bear who's BMI is very high, but he's muscular. He's like Blackyce who's only into bears/chubs.

I love lesbians. That is, I love lipstick lesbians. It's the bulldykes that scare the piss out of me. Too much testosterone.

Hardly sensitive over this. God knows I have discussions about this with my bf who lived in the era of HIV (similar to Blackyce) who's partner died of mucormycosis and HIV. I sympathize with Blackyce because of what he's gone through. I just don't like when a lot of people say "You guys have no idea what it's like,.."

Blackyce's view of the bear community differs from mine, especially since he was actually an adult back in the 80s. All I can base it on is my own experiences and what friends have told me. Sorry about the attacks before, Black.
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And, I've slept inside my partner a few times. Ambien rape ftw.