The Ask Kuriin, A Gay Man, Anything Thread

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TheBeagle

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Ya I'm pretty skeptical of the Asians as well. I don't know enough Asians to account for 5.8% of the people I know. Can't be true.
 
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Qhue_sl said:
I've personally questioned that assertion as I have absolutely zero attraction to women at all, but that does not seem to be the case for everyone. A great many straight guys seem more than willing to experiment at least once, but I don't think that means they are "gay" or even "bi".
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Boobs are amazing. I don't know what I would do if I got my hands on them, but I find them fun to look at.
 
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Friend invited me over for another sleep over last night. But we got in a fight because I got jealous of a new girl he's seeing. We were fine again in the morning, but still no cuddling. Ugh I hate falling in love with straight guys.
 
Noodleface

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He's not straight man. I would never invite a dude to sleepover my house unless he was to drunk to drive home or something.
 
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Seriously. The words "I am straight but invite my gay BFF over to sleep and cuddle/gently nuzzle/sometimes kiss on the mouth" have never, ever come out of someone's mouth and been true. I've had friends sleep over at my house, no big deal. I have never once slept in the same bed with those friends, and certainly never cuddled with them. He's craving the D.
 
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Noodleface_sl said:
He's not straight man. I would never invite a dude to sleepover my house unless he was to drunk to drive home or something.
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Well, we were drunk, but the invite to sleep over happened the day before. He has to be straight. He's too obsessed with women, and too unwilling to do anything with a guy. If he's not straight, why does he invite me to sleep over, but we don't even cuddle? What's he getting out of it?

This goes to Qhue's comment on the Kinsey scale though. Even if guys like that are a 1 or 2, it's unlikely they'll do anything with guys, despite not being 100% straight.
 
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chaos_sl said:
Seriously. The words "I am straight but invite my gay BFF over to sleep and cuddle/gently nuzzle/sometimes kiss on the mouth" have never, ever come out of someone's mouth and been true. I've had friends sleep over at my house, no big deal. I have never once slept in the same bed with those friends, and certainly never cuddled with them. He's craving the D.
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Well, we haven't cuddled. I so wanted to last night though.
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So close yet so far.

What's the big deal with a guy sleeping in your bed if you're just sleeping?
 
ZyyzYzzy

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You and your non-butt buddy are both extremely gay. I'd rather sleep on the floor then in a bed with another dude.
 
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ZyyzYzzy_sl said:
You and your non-butt buddy are both extremely gay. I'd rather sleep on the floor then in a bed with another dude.
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WTF? You've never had a weekend getaway on the cheap when you and too many friends split a hotel room? Shared a bed with bros plenty of times.
 
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Fiyero_sl said:
Well, we were drunk, but the invite to sleep over happened the day before. He has to be straight. He's too obsessed with women, and too unwilling to do anything with a guy. If he's not straight, why does he invite me to sleep over, but we don't even cuddle? What's he getting out of it?

This goes to Qhue's comment on the Kinsey scale though. Even if guys like that are a 1 or 2, it's unlikely they'll do anything with guys, despite not being 100% straight.
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He invites you over and acts obsessed with women because he's confused most likely. I have a gay friend. I would never ask him to sleep over unless he was drunk, or we were doing an all night LAN party, or something. I wouldn't want to ever put the thought of me being gay into his head, for his own sake and my own.

Think about it from another perspective. Imagine a girl kept asking me to sleep over, but she had a boyfriend who also slept over. The message I would be getting is "I think this chick wants me but isn't sure because she has a boyfriend". This is the same message I would be getting if a guy kept asking me to sleep over, even if he was the straightest dude I know.

Personally I think he's putting on a charade because he doesn't know what to do. It might not even be worth your time, a guy like that might slip and do some homosexual things with you but ultimately he'll flip flop and you'll get hurt.
 
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Fiyero_sl said:
Well, we were drunk, but the invite to sleep over happened the day before. He has to be straight. He's too obsessed with women, and too unwilling to do anything with a guy. If he's not straight, why does he invite me to sleep over, but we don't even cuddle? What's he getting out of it?

This goes to Qhue's comment on the Kinsey scale though. Even if guys like that are a 1 or 2, it's unlikely they'll do anything with guys, despite not being 100% straight.
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He invites you over and acts obsessed with women because he's confused most likely. I have a gay friend. I would never ask him to sleep over unless he was drunk, or we were doing an all night LAN party, or something. I wouldn't want to ever put the thought of me being gay into his head, for his own sake and my own.

Think about it from another perspective. Imagine a girl kept asking me to sleep over, but she had a boyfriend who also slept over. The message I would be getting is "I think this chick wants me but isn't sure because she has a boyfriend". This is the same message I would be getting if a guy kept asking me to sleep over, even if he was the straightest dude I know.

Personally I think he's putting on a charade because he doesn't know what to do. It might not even be worth your time, a guy like that might slip and do some homosexual things with you but ultimately he'll flip flop and you'll get hurt.
 
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Ok I just read the last couple of posts so blast me if I missed something important but why can't the guy just be bi our just like sex in general? I personally prefer women but I'm fairly certain I could live with myself if my gay friend gave me occasional blow jobs. In fact he might just be hoping for exactly that situation. How many guys would like to receive no strings attached blow jobs from girls they had zero romantic interest in otherwise. Same thing with your eyes closed.

Not saying you are giving him any but what does it cost him to see if you will.
 
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Selix_sl said:
Ok I just read the last couple of posts so blast me if I missed something important but why can't the guy just be bi our just like sex in general? I personally prefer women but I'm fairly certain I could live with myself if my gay friend gave me occasional blow jobs. In fact he might just be hoping for exactly that situation. How many guys would like to receive no strings attached blow jobs from girls they had zero romantic interest in otherwise. Same thing with your eyes closed.

Not saying you are giving him any but what does it cost him to see if you will.
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I would say nothing. Behavior doesn't determine orientation, so him getting a BJ from his gay friend just to get off with no emotional strings doesn't make him gay if he's still in relationships with women. But he'll never let me do it. He already told me he won't even let me see his dick.
 
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