Has anyone ever been like 'fuck you no' t your house rules?
You seem to like to put as much realism into your games as you can. So I'm guessing you've thought about this. What are the RL stats of a normal nerd at your table? Like, if there's a 5 ft jump to make, most normal people probably just barely make it. If there's 100 lbs to lift from the ground, most won't be able to do it. What stat numbers would that equate to? I think about that sometimes when my character is using the wall to clear a 20 ft lava pit. I'm like, if this is possible with a dex of 15, my RL dex must be about 6.