The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread

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skribble

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I disagree...don't pretend anything. You fucked her...if you wanted more, then too bad. She's with someone else and you don't want to date a known cheater anyway. You want to still hang out with her? Do it. You want to hang out with your other mutual friends and ignore her? Then do that. But don't do it with the idea of getting in her pants again. Don't whine to her about what happened...if she makes an advance on you or brings up the subject, shut her down nicely, but firmly.
But don't pretend nothing happened. Walk around knowing you fucked her. Don't pretend to be her friend. Either be her friend or don't. In any case, move on...and to be honest, you don't sound strong enough to be around her and follow this advice, so just go make some new friends. Introduce yourself to a new group in class next week and get out of that one.
Solid advice, thanks. For the other questions, Its not actually dorms, but on campus still, and I live there because my own house is too far to travel each day from. As for being a creeper, the course is mostly female, I was warned of this by another person who was fully qualified and told me to stick at it , as a lot of men drop out for this reason. I was hoping there'd at least be more mature students there but it seems its mostly people who have came straight from high school. The male friends Ive met are leaving at the end of this year.
 

iannis

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If you pick a fight with this girl you're gonna lose it. If she decided to pick the fight instead you'll still lose it.

You stuck your dick where it didn't belong. And every last one of her friends already know it.

You basically need to give up. There's no way you getting out of that well. Just focus on getting out of it.
 

skribble

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What's the course?
Its basically food and nutrition except you work in a hospital / clinical setting to treat disease through nutrition, for example patients with kidney disease, diabetes, cancer or who cannot eat using their mouth etc.
 

The Ancient_sl

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Dont send some mean text to her. You pretended to be the good guy but then when it started looking like she was losing interest, you showed your real intentions and tried to fuck her. Then you got friend zoned. Your fault, not hers.

...move on.
All that needs to be said.
 

Dabamf_sl

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How did I miss the 30yo vs 18-22yo? In that case, I change my recommendation to simply stop being weird and hanging out with/trying to fuck children.
 

Void

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How did I miss the 30yo vs 18-22yo? In that case, I change my recommendation to simply stop being weird and hanging out with/trying to fuck children.
I've said this before, but man you guys just don't even know what it is like to never be able to experience those ripe young bodies again. I fully agree that someone my age (40s) should not be consistently hanging out with and/or befriending mostly people that age, let alone dating them. But if I had a shot at banging girls that age, and they weren't cheating on their boyfriend or getting heroin from me or any other unsavory shit, why wouldn't I want to? No, I don't want to have in-depth conversations with them, hell I'd prefer they not even talk. But no 35+ year old woman can compete with the smooth skin and tight body of those young girls, and you really have no idea until you realize you can't have them anymore.

This is all assuming, of course, that you aren't using some position of authority or other questionable tactics. You can hypothesize daddy issues or whatever you like, but if a girl half my age was part of my circle of friends and she thought I was witty and charming and mature, and decided she wanted to fuck me, I'll tell you right now there's no fucking way that I'm going to tell her some guys on the internet think it is creepy so I better not. I don't even care if she lacks the experience of older ladies, sometimes you just want to fuck some hot piece of ass.

I'd give my left nut for some firm 20-year old titties right now. The only firm ones I see anymore are plastic.
 

The Ancient_sl

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I'm more or less with Vvoid on this one. Considering he isn't taking extraordinary measures to find these women there is nothing wrong with engaging them. The fact that he is relying on them to be his sole circle of friends is the more problematic situation.
 

Eomer

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Vvoid_sl said:
This is all assuming, of course, that you aren't using some position of authority or other questionable tactics.
The chick was hammered drunk when they fucked, so much so that she doesn't remember it. Or at least, claims not to. I don't sign on to the "fucking a drunk chick is rape" side of things, but fucking a hammered chick who is half your age is at the very least questionable.

On the other hand, giggity.
 

skribble

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The chick was hammered drunk when they fucked, so much so that she doesn't remember it. Or at least, claims not to. I don't sign on to the "fucking a drunk chick is rape" side of things, but fucking a hammered chick who is half your age is at the very least questionable.

On the other hand, giggity.
Yeah. I actually did think about that, but since we'd been hanging out all day drinking from like 3, necking in the club in front of her and our friends and it was her who initiated everything (take me home, have you got any condoms?, and other stuff) etc. and the fact that I was also drunk, I just went with it. Again,when I say black-out I mean she said she doesnt remember anything, not that she was falling down on the floor or shit like that.

Her friend actually mentioned the next day or two later that she didn't think the girl was as drunk as she was making out afterwards. I personally thought it was just one of those ways girls cope with doing something they feel bad about, 'oh i cant remember i was black out drunk' but she did seem genuinely surprised to hear things had gone that far when I did bring it up later. Said she felt bad enough about the cheating when she thought it was just kissing, and nothing has happened since I told her. Still its hard to tell, we were both very drunk (again) so hard to know if she was being sincere.
 

Eomer

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Oh, don't get me wrong, it's probably fairly likely that she knows exactly what happened that night and she's just claiming otherwise to deal with her guilt about it. But regardless of that, banging really drunk chicks who are barely half your age and expecting a relationship to blossom out of it is fucking stupid, man. You need to get the fuck away from this chick stat. And re-evaluate where your life and social circles are at that you are primarily hanging around with a bunch of chicks ten years younger than you, and ten times crazier than what you should be dealing with.

Maybe fuck some of her friends, get pics, and post them here.
 

Gavinmad

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Its basically food and nutrition except you work in a hospital / clinical setting to treat disease through nutrition, for example patients with kidney disease, diabetes, cancer or who cannot eat using their mouth etc.
Why is a dude in his 30s just now deciding he wants to be a nurse?
 

skribble

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Oh, don't get me wrong, it's probably fairly likely that she knows exactly what happened that night and she's just claiming otherwise to deal with her guilt about it. But regardless of that, banging really drunk chicks who are barely half your age and expecting a relationship to blossom out of it is fucking stupid, man. You need to get the fuck away from this chick stat. And re-evaluate where your life and social circles are at that you are primarily hanging around with a bunch of chicks ten years younger than you, and ten times crazier than what you should be dealing with.

Maybe fuck some of her friends, get pics, and post them here.
Yeah, the crazy is strong in that age group. I think it's coming across that I'm actively seeking out 18 year olds trying to make them my social circle out of choice or something. I am not. I stay up at the Uni during the week, and my course basically has 4 guys in it (18 year olds) out of maybe 100 people and the rest are 18-22 girls. Either I make friends with them, or I have no friends at uni, and no support framework for when I go out on clinical placements. I thought there would be a lot more mature students when I started, but alas there are not.

I am with you on getting away from her. I peaced out of a weed/drinking session on thursday to go home, and she's texted me to come over on sunday and I am going to bump that and just say ill see her at Uni instead.

Why is a dude in his 30s just now deciding he wants to be a nurse?
Why not?

Also its not nursing.
 

Soygen

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Why is it weird for anyone of any age to return to school?
 

skribble

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I mean unless the entire plan was to get your dick wet in 18-22 year old strange, it's a bit weird.
Is changing careers weird? If you do really want an answer and aren't just being facetious, then its the fact that I got into my past career because it was the only thing I enjoyed somewhat at school. It wasn't a passion, I couldnt give a fuck about it. A number of years down the line, the monotony was killing me.

I am affected by one of the diseases I wish to work in the field of, and I made some changes that reversed complications of said disease. At that point, I realised that helping others and interacting with people would actually be kind of rewarding, and that I was *actually* interested in the science behind the physiology of the human body and that this would be a cool field to work in and study, rather than just grinding out some meaningless job 9-5.
 

Gavinmad

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Is changing careers weird? If you do really want an answer and aren't just being facetious, then its the fact that I got into my past career because it was the only thing I enjoyed somewhat at school. It wasn't a passion, I couldnt give a fuck about it. A number of years down the line, the monotony was killing me.

I am affected by one of the diseases I wish to work in the field of, and I made some changes that reversed complications of said disease. At that point, I realised that helping others and interacting with people would actually be kind of rewarding, and that I was *actually* interested in the science behind the physiology of the human body and that this would be a cool field to work in and study, rather than just grinding out some meaningless job 9-5.
I'm just messing with you. I'd be in school failing to have sex with 18-22 year olds right now if it wasn't for the crippling mental illness holding me back.