The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread

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Ignatius

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You might be right. Either way, I fully expect her to go silent again, then in a week or two tell me how much she misses me. Just gotta stick by what I said.
 
iannis

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There's no easy way out of that. You have to cut out the disease, and it's going to be harder to do because you've let it grow for so long. Its going to leave scars and lasting damage at this point.

But the thing is that when you have been with this girl it has always ended poorly when you tried for more than a simple friendship. You're chasing something, that much is obvious. It's not where you think it is / want it to be... that much is also obvious.

You gotta stop thinking that she's the one. If it's easy it's probably fake, sure. This is the wrong kind of hard. There are difficulties in life which make you more and then there are those that make you less. You already know which one this is.
 
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Dabamf_sl

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The girl is full of shit. She married some guy she doesn't like? Would YOU marry someone if youre in love with someone else? Of course not. Why would you think this chick is making any sense

"Oh...but maybe..." - that's the worst thought to ever go through someone's head. The "maybe" voice is the same that tells you Youll be fine raw-doggin it this one time or to hang around while your "friend" gets plowed by other dudes hoping she'll come around.

If youre waiting on a "maybe", you already lost
 
Big Phoenix

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Sounds like an orangutan who couldnt let go of the previous branch. And why the hell would you jump back to her without hesitation? You two havent even been together and shes currently married.
 
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I would even advise to warn the guy she's married with more so if they have no kids yet so it will be easier for you to burn the bridge when shitstorm ensue...
 
Kirun

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Ignatius_sl said:
It's been almost a year, for a while things were getting intense between us again, but she would never break it off with this guy.I told her 3 days ago to show me divorce papers or leave me alone.
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Negotiated desire only ever leads to obligated compliance. You need to cut off all ties with this chick. All you are is an emotional tampon, available for her at her whim. You're going to be nothing but miserable if you continue on this course.
 
Izo

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Iannis_sl said:
Its ok. Someone needs to break up with a girl named Monica though.
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Did someone say Monica?
 
Voyce

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Ignatius_sl said:
Getting this off my chest here because the people in my life are sick of hearing about this train wreck after ten years.

I met this girl in high school. We didn't really date, we were just really good friends. Our senior year, we started dating and things were great. Then she cheated. I didn't talk to her afterwards. We went to different schools. After a while, we made contact again.

I left KSU after getting injured to the point where I couldnt play anymore because fuck Kansas and came back to Dallas where she went to school.

We dated on and off, but something always happened. A fight, a break...whatever. I really did love her though, so I would always tell myself give it another chance.

One summer, she went to D.C. for some internship and I got a call about not wanting to do a long distance relationship. That's when I noticed another guy. He asked her dad for permission to date her, and the dad apparently fell in love with this guy, moving him to Dallas, getting him a pretty good job, etc.

I confronted her about it and was told they werent dating, so things went back to normal for us. Then I get a call at work two years ago, that she had news for me. She was engaged.

I nearly lost it, refusing to believe it. A week later she told me over lunch she didnt intend to go through with it and was just trying to figure out how to break it off. The excuses kept piling up how her family set this up, and its what they wanted, etc.

She got married last June. I was probably at the lowest point in my life ever. The night of, I got the drunkest I've ever been, threw my phone out the window and passed out (very expensive mistake, dont recommend). I woke up to 5 different groups of people banging my door down to see if I was alive (first my brother who she had called, then my mom, then my best friend, then my apartment complex because someone called them and told them they thought I was dead, and finally another ex of mine).

I didn't speak to her again. If I had known it was her number calling me when I answered, maybe I would be better off today. We talked, and she told me how miserable she was, and how she made such a terrible mistake and realized she wanted to be with me.

But she would never break it off. I remember asking her how could she possibly do it now, if she couldn't before she got married.

It's been almost a year, for a while things were getting intense between us again, but she would never break it off with this guy.I told her 3 days ago to show me divorce papers or leave me alone.

I know the advice, I know what to do. It just hurts, and it has been for a long time. I feel like a complete shitcan of a human being because every time I've dated someone else, I've known in my heart that if I had a chance I'd jump back to her without hesitation.

anyway, sorry to derail from much more interesting stories about hookers, I just really needed to vent. Fight the good fight J49.
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She doesn't love you, and the amount of love you have for her means nothing because its unrequited.

You need to be separated from her forever. With time you will forget her for the most part, you will forget the pain you feel now, and you will stop caring about her.

She married someone, just keep saying that because your brain should understand that there is nothing more final about her lack of interest in you than that.

A lot of woman are fickle to the point that they don't regard the way they behave, they feel that their behavior is justifiable because they're the weaker sex--and they are. She doesn't actuallymissyou,
she misses the convenience that you were to her, she liked the fact that she had complete control over your emotions, this is the closest thing most women will ever come to having true power. This is her moment to rule over you, any other situation and you're her better; but right now you're a pathetic sack of shit who needs to take your phone chuck it into the ocean, get a new number, hang out with your friends (and don't fucking talk about her around them), andnever talk to her again.
 
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Numbers_sl

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So I ran into the guy whose woman I had been banging and I got to see him up close this time. Now I know why she bangs other people, he's morbidly obese with a pockmarked face I think (covered by a goatee, but something strange was going on in that area). He must read these forums though because he had a big smile on his face when he saw me and asked me how I was doing. So weird. He does look familiar, however. I may have seen/met him in another capacity at some point in time.
 
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Numbers_sl said:
So I ran into the guy whose woman I had been banging and I got to see him up close this time. Now I know why she bangs other people, he's morbidly obese with a pockmarked face I think (covered by a goatee, but something strange was going on in that area). He must read these forums though because he had a big smile on his face when he saw me and asked me how I was doing. So weird. He does look familiar, however. I may have seen/met him in another capacity at some point in time.
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Hows it feel knowing that you got his sloppy seconds?
 
bixxby

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Numbers_sl said:
So I ran into the guy whose woman I had been banging and I got to see him up close this time. Now I know why she bangs other people, he's morbidly obese with a pockmarked face I think (covered by a goatee, but something strange was going on in that area). He must read these forums though because he had a big smile on his face when he saw me and asked me how I was doing. So weird. He does look familiar, however. I may have seen/met him in another capacity at some point in time.
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Is this him?
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