The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread

I'm not a sex scientist, but I think if there was a lag time of 10 weeks between penetration and pregnancy then

Did she get the aborsh Antarius?

Ah the classic mongoloid relationship=prostitution argument. It must have been over a year since the last one. Oh how enlightened they are. If only we could just see what they see

Dabamf_sl said:

Ah the classic mongoloid relationship=prostitution argument. It must have been over a year since the last one. Oh how enlightened they are. If only we could just see what they see

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Nothing to do with prostitution, just the fact that relationships cost resources regardless of whether they are strictly transactional or 'love'.

Big Phoenix_sl said:

If your woman is more than happy to fuck without ever spending a single dime on her, wouldnt that make her a fwb?

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If that's the case just be careful her boyfriend or husband doesn't find out about you.

Relationships are at their basic level about an exchange of resources and the meeting of needs. Throughout history and in modern society, by and large, the masculine role is as provider. In cave times it was food and shelter and boring shit like that. In modern society money is what creates the ability to provide. Man provide money. Women sense opportunity for child to survive. Women spread legs. Man make sex explosion. They both laugh about how much they love having sex for the sake of sex alone.... while the woman narrows her gaze toward the camera because deep down her evolution has other plans.

There's a dynamic that exists in human relationships where I provide one thing, you reciprocate with another. This holds true for many things, especially sex. Some people simply the process like Johnny, because they've singled out one thing they want and a way to get it.

That doesn't mean durr durr relationships are all prostitution!!! And that doesn't mean the hyper-personalize counter-examples disprove everything EVAR. And it doesn't mean a bunch of fucking nerds in this thread who have in the past gone on and on about different means they're trying to employ to score some pussy or keep it weren't playing into that dynamic even if they were broke as shit and couldn't afford to just go to hookers directly!

Palum_sl said:

In an idyllic world, everyone would call Tuco (it was Tuco right? I don't remember) an idiot for even buying a Moissanite ring because it's entirely impractical to spend money on vanity or tradition, right?

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Tuco is way too cheap to ever do anything like that. He probably gave her a ring from a Cracker Jack box.

popsicledeath_sl said:

Relationships are at their basic level about an exchange of resources and the meeting of needs. Throughout history and in modern society, by and large, the masculine role is as provider. In cave times it was food and shelter and boring shit like that. In modern society money is what creates the ability to provide. Man provide money. Women sense opportunity for child to survive. Women spread legs. Man make sex explosion. They both laugh about how much they love having sex for the sake of sex alone.... while the woman narrows her gaze toward the camera because deep down her evolution has other plans.

There's a dynamic that exists in human relationships where I provide one thing, you reciprocate with another. This holds true for many things, especially sex. Some people simply the process like Johnny, because they've singled out one thing they want and a way to get it.

That doesn't mean durr durr relationships are all prostitution!!! And that doesn't mean the hyper-personalize counter-examples disprove everything EVAR. And it doesn't mean a bunch of fucking nerds in this thread who have in the past gone on and on about different means they're trying to employ to score some pussy or keep it weren't playing into that dynamic even if they were broke as shit and couldn't afford to just go to hookers directly!

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Then the argument is completely meaningless. I care about my siblings because they share my genes and enhance my survival, also. At the gene level, that's all that matters. With that information, I can be retarded and dismiss all feelings of kinship with them and extract no meaning from our relationship because it's just a biological process I'm engaging in. Don't care about your siblings!! It's just your genes fucking with your head! Or I can enjoy the relationship on a human level and extract meaning from it in spite of the fact that I only really do so because "genes," and suffer no I'll from my failure to, for some reason, act different from the natural inclination that has served my ancestors well for hundreds of generations.

For example, I really enjoy teaching and mentorship. I get a lot of pleasure out of helping undergrads in our research lab figure out what to do after undergrad, do well on the GRE, get into grad school, etc. The reason I like it, from a gene reductionistic point of view, likely has something to do with building communal importance and networking blah blah to ensure my position is stable to attract high caliber mates and have a stable environment for my future children. But that information is completely meaningless. The experiential truth is I gain pleasure from doing that, from helping others succeed and learn. The experiential bit is, really, the only thing that matters.

So when people say oh its all the same shit, i say: do you experience it the same way, or are you just trying to be smarter than everyone by stating a reductionistic truth that is ultimately irrelevant to the human experience?

My girlfriend purchased all the ingredients to cook me some chorizo gravy & biscuits this morning and then blew me right there at the table.


Am I a whore?

Alex_sl said:

Tuco is way too cheap to ever do anything like that. He probably gave her a ring from a Cracker Jack box.

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I think it was either Tuco or Erronius right?

cabbitcabbit_sl said:

My girlfriend purchased all the ingredients to cook me some chorizo gravy & biscuits this morning and then blew me right there at the table.


Am I a whore?

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Did you legally consent? Cause...you may have been raped.

True, cabbitcabbit may have been taken advantage of.

Dabamf_sl said:

So when people say oh its all the same shit...

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I don't see anyone saying it's all the same shit but people arguing dumb shit like "so you're saying I literally married a prostitute?!?!"

I've gotten Tarranted twice in a row now by different girls from tinder, both for 2nd dates. The first one was legit not feeling well, then over the course of a few texts she changes her mind and comes over anyway and we ended up banging. This time the chick was super cool and damn cute, we both dug each other big time on the first meet up for a drink. We were having a hard time finding a time to meet again, but she says she can hang out lateish last night (Saturday) but had plans earlier. I'm staying in because I had a wild Thursday night, and our plan was for her to come to my place. Here is what happened:

Her (20 minutes after she wss supposed to be at my house): Hey dabamf. I'm so sorry. I don't know if tonight is gonna work. I'm so drunk. I feel so bad because I was really looking forward to seeing you.

Me: That's pretty damn rude (name)

Her: Seriously? I'm so sorry. I can come. I'm just so drink.

Me: I don't want you to come over if you're wasted.

Her: It's my friends last night in town. I apologize completely. She's moving to San Francisco this next week. I didn't think it would go this long.

Me: Its not a big deal. But I don't like my time being wasted

Her: I'm sorry. I don't know what else to say
Her: Please don't guilt me about this. I really am sorry. She's getting married and moving to San Francisco to get married.

Me: then don't make plans with me
Me: don't worry about it. Have fun with your friend

Too mean? All this chick had to say is sorry, won't do it again, and its over. But the fucking excuses pissed me off. Blow someone off 20 min after you're supposed to meet and expect them to be cool with it?

I think you were fine until you said "don't worry about it." It either comes off as excusing her behavior or passive-aggressive, neither of which you want.

And why the hell can I analyze that just fine, but when I'm in the same situation myself, I screw it up?

It's not like she showed up 20 minutes late. Shecancelled20 minutes after being expected. That wastes a lot more than 20 minutes of Dabamf's time. She easily could have cancelled on him ahead of time if she wanted to make plans with her "friend leaving town".

Fuck her.

Hook me up with her friend when she moves here.