I lasted in an “uber guild” in EQ for a couple / few months.

circa somewhere between 2001-2003.
Even being early 20s I couldn’t keep up (nor care to) with the nerds who played nonstop and expected you to also.
Expectation to raid X amount of nights in the middle of the week until like 3-4 AM eastern time sometimes. Meanwhile I had a full time job and social life. Waking up at 6:30-7 AM with 2-3 hours of sleep then they wanted you to play it all again the same night. Realistically I probably did this maybe 10-15 times total and said fuck this.
Also it was just incredibly boring to raid the same slog over and over again. The zones with a lot of trash, etc. just hours and hours to get to something. I can’t even stomach farming on this server and it’s super casual.