My biggest issue with the Gay Ron Swanson episode was actually not the gayness. In the original game, the entire encounter with Bill set the tone in a lot of ways. And Frank's suicide was more of a shock that impacted everyone. In their efforts to win awards with their stunning brave bear story, they completely changed a ton of important things from the game. No interaction with Ellie and Bill, no comic books found by Eli, no tense push start of the truck where Joel has to trust her, no explanation about the battery situation, and so on. This was a completely disconnected story with zero relationship to the main tale beyond "We went to get a car where some dead gay guys were shacking up at." and could have basically been completely cut out with no real impact on the whole story.
Druckmann is continuing to Lucas retcon his shit to cram in more Lifetime Gay Specials and the overall story arc is suffering for it.