Alright, so here's the gender equality compromise:
If a girl gets drunk, she might get taken advantage of or even raped by an asshole. Pictures and videos may or may not get circulated, her reputation may be destroyed and her life might get a lot more difficult. I'm not saying it always happens, I'm certainly not saying it's the case here, but it happens. Guy's fault, but she made a stupid decision that put her at risk.
If a guy gets drunk, he might sleep with a nutjob who later falsely accuses him of rape. He may be found not guilty due to lack of evidence, but his reputation will be destroyed and his life may get a lot more difficult. I'm not saying it always happens (although it may actually be the case here), but it happens. Girl's fault, but he made a stupid decision that put him at risk.
What's the problem? They should both "take responsibility" for their actions, right? They both got drunk and made stupid decisions that led to their lives potentially being ruined. It would be a double standard to say a girl should take partial responsibility for being raped, but a guy shouldn't for being accused of rape. Rape and false accusations of rape are both heinous acts that have a victim. Is anybody trying to say that a guy falsely accused of rape did nothing wrong, but a girl who was rapeddiddo something wrong? Please clarify.
