There are tons and tons of games out there with efficient and interactive lobbies, that use excellent pairing algorithms to place you with randoms, or allow premade groups to participate, and offer tons and tons of content inside controlled instanced environments... and they do it better than any mmo. When you start making your game more and more convenient to access - you make travel a breeze, and then you're removing the need for beta cucks to put effort into forming groups, and you remove shitters from being blacklisted out of raid content and even make raids that are a joke to win, and let everyone access the good stuff automatically from a hub, and standardize gear with just incremental stat increases that are all heavily balanced, and remove unique rare chase items, and blend the servers in together, and... Eventually these conveniences and QOL changes result in a mmo shell hosting any other online video game.
The same issue hits everquest. People scream and scream for stuff like instanced everything, fv loot (can trade everything), unlimited multiboxing... and can't realize how much this turns eq into a single player game with minimal variance on where you go, and actual sp rpgs will shit on someone playing an mmo alone.
Fuck flight. It was good in Aion, of all things, but it wasn't in wow. Worse, fuck instantly porting into dungeon and in an autoformed group without travel at all.
Fuck group finder. Have a lfg tool and sort features and notes, yes, but make it so finding groups is not just /lfg on and wait a minute unless you picked a bottleneck class. Make taking personal initiative meaningful - the people who can't muster the willpower here are in my personal experience almost always beta pussies, virgins, and shit job losers. No ethugging here - being unable to get off your ass in a game is a telltale sign of a pathetic person irl, and the moment games cater to these folks with automation so they can do nothing and socialize the quality plummets. Fuck them, or unfuck them really, learning to do some work is a good life skill.
So many people are coming back to wow classic (or eq tlps) and still want all the quality of life bullshit that made the game hollow in the first place. If you want that shit, play the game (bfa) that has it, don't run from it and then argue for the same concepts as if flying mounts and groupfinder arent exactly what led wow to becoming a lobby sim garbage pile. It's no different to me than socialists who flee a shithole then want socialism, or muslims who migrate out of some polygamous war ridden east africa hellscape and then want their goatfucking religion made into law.