Recent content by CnCGOD_foh

IO Psychology is the only way to go for a real job.

You forgot one type, the girl who was busy with supporting herself while working on a PhD and has just graduated at 28-32ish. Best of every world, more mature, smart, earning potential, still wants family. They are out there, tend to have higher standards in a guy however so if you are still in...

If you see it as a game then so be it, there are a lot of people out there who don"t see it that way and it is really dickish to play your game with them.

I have had good luck explaining my thought process. But only when it is clear something had a negative effect. I would reverse the question. Like "I am not mad, what makes you think so?" Then if she says it hurts her feeling when you don"t talk to her much you can say that you got the impression...

Yea, don"t get that... not a GF/BF until declared to be so.

I confirm this stereotype.

I think the weight thing will come down to two main things. First, are you looking for a relationship that is going to be long term? If you are then look more at personality/compatibility as that is what will matter in terms of enjoying your time together which is what its all about...

Smart chicks like board games, some of us like them to have a brain.

I still don"t get why so many guys get hung up purely on looks like that. What the fuck, this is a person you will be spending a huge chunk of your free time with. Find someone who looks pretty good (6-8 territory) and is fun to be with no matter what. I am talking someone you could sit in a...

My something private about you was that I wasn"t into music. Met a girl via okcupid and have been dating 2 months so yea not 100%. And yes Its not a gimmick I honestly never actively listen to music.

What is your title, and what do you make? Having that data could help us give you good information.

OKC asks you a bunch of questions, he picked one of the probably 100s she had answered as a conversation starter. Quite possibly the worst one he could have picked to be honest as anything sexual in the first contact is instant fail.

From what I have seen Directors are rarely former engineers at my current company. Never seen manager/director level jobs on the market here as people promote from within for them... hell even Lead jobs are rare around here. I see metric fucktons of Sr jobs though.

Because if for some reason you lose your job, it becomes really hard to find one. Its an ageist industry, pretty commonly accepted to be so... sure someone will want you but it"ll be a LOT harder. How many 40+ software engineers do you see around? For me it really comes down to the fact...

Yea I"m already a Lead so its at the point I don"t have much room to grow technically. I"m 31 so I have a few years but you don"t wanna be a 40yr old engineer from everything I"ve seen and heard.