Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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Noodleface

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What you basically described was a bachelor's life. You basically have a person that is taking care of the home right now and that is it.

Is there an emotional attachment? I don't mean to be crass, but she sounds like a piece of work.
 

Xarpolis

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So you can't say "outside of the sex issue it is a good happy home". It's like saying "outside of being paralyzed, I love running around".

It's a good happy home for 1 person, and unfortunately it isn't you. She's a glorified school lunch lady that's getting paid all she needs to retire on. Being that you cover EVERYTHING. It's a great deal for her, not so much for you. Stop feeling like you owe her anything.
 

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I had a similar situation. We both were in very bad shape. So what happens is that i started following friends in facebook and instagram that were into crossfit and it really have given them better bodies. So I will go "omg look at this before and after, remember my friend so and so. she looks different ( not hot) now" Lets give this crossfit a try together.

So we went together, and 2 years after we still go. In fact most women prefer crossfit vs a gym due to the social aspect of it.
 

Noodleface

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I had a similar situation. We both were in very bad shape. So what happens is that i started following friends in facebook and instagram that were into crossfit and it really have given them better bodies. So I will go "omg look at this before and after, remember my friend so and so. she looks different ( not hot) now" Lets give this crossfit a try together.

So we went together, and 2 years after we still go. In fact most women prefer crossfit vs a gym due to the social aspect of it.
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Not sure if serious...
Anyways the amount of hot chicks that do crossfit is just staggering. Most come from gymnastics /sports background so going to the gym to workout and talk crap, becomes working out and talking with a a bunch of hot ass girls. Win win for me.
 

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camille leblanc is on the pic.

Also I just go to the back of the class and all the girls go to the front and then just we do squats. lot of them, and yes. those asses are fucking amazing.
 

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Not sure if serious...
Anyways the amount of hot chicks that do crossfit is just staggering. Most come from gymnastics /sports background so going to the gym to workout and talk crap, becomes working out and talking with a a bunch of hot ass girls. Win win for me.
What's your gym dues? You could pay a hooker to talk to for what I've seen some crossfit gyms quoted.
 

Noodleface

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I don't doubt some people can get in serious shape doing Crossfit, and I don't doubt a lot of hot women do it. It's a fad right now, I get it. The cheerleader here pushes for it. My problem is when out of shape people bust into it and hurt themselves. It has a really bad reputation for that.

I guess that's not the point of the thread though. If it worked for you, then good.
 

mkopec

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Olabass I would seriously rethink what you got going on there bro. If You as a semi attractive 42 yr old working man you could be scoring some prime 35+ yr old ass. Lifes too short to get yourself stagnated in a relationship or lack there of like you are in. Who cares if she cleans and cooks for you , you could get that and BJs every other night. Why work so hard if you have someone which does not appreciate/reciprocate it back. Bring some dam excitement back in your life, bro. i know its hard beause getting rid of the status quoe/familiarity is hard, but do it bro. You are too young to die a dick death.
 

Julian The Apostate

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Dear Abby,
I need the advice of the council. I'm recently divorced. We've were seperated last august and just finished the paperwork on the divorce within the last couple weeks. I haven't really dated during the divorce except for one date with a crazy puerto rican and a one night stand and they just kinda fell on my lap, not because i was out looking for them. The entire time during the divorce I was telling myself I was going to enjoy being single and fuck everything I could after the divorce was final. Well I met this beautiful blonde this past Thursday. We clicked and I asked her out this Friday. We're going to get some sushi and check out some local music. We've been texting a lot and she seems really into me. She's 33 (I'm 31), a nurse, used to be a personal fitness trainer, in great shape, no kids, no red flags. Today she asked me if i wanted to take a day trip the beach this sunday. On one hand I think its fucking awesome to be dating again and going out and having some spontaneous fun with a gorgeous girl but there is a part of me that thinks we might be moving too fast. What say ye?
 

Khane

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No red flags? She's a nurse. That's a red flag. Kidding aside why the fuck are you even questioning whether it's too fast. Just do it, you'll know whether you're ready or not once you've gotten back out there. Don't be a pussy.
 

Haast

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Dear Abby,
I need the advice of the council. I'm recently divorced. We've were seperated last august and just finished the paperwork on the divorce within the last couple weeks. I haven't really dated during the divorce except for one date with a crazy puerto rican and a one night stand and they just kinda fell on my lap, not because i was out looking for them. The entire time during the divorce I was telling myself I was going to enjoy being single and fuck everything I could after the divorce was final. Well I met this beautiful blonde this past Thursday. We clicked and I asked her out this Friday. We're going to get some sushi and check out some local music. We've been texting a lot and she seems really into me. She's 33 (I'm 31), a nurse, used to be a personal fitness trainer, in great shape, no kids, no red flags. Today she asked me if i wanted to take a day trip the beach this sunday. On one hand I think its fucking awesome to be dating again and going out and having some spontaneous fun with a gorgeous girl but there is a part of me that thinks we might be moving too fast. What say ye?
Go on the beach trip and don't propose to her on it. Problem solved.
 

Tenks

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I had a similar situation. We both were in very bad shape. So what happens is that i started following friends in facebook and instagram that were into crossfit and it really have given them better bodies. So I will go "omg look at this before and after, remember my friend so and so. she looks different ( not hot) now" Lets give this crossfit a try together.

So we went together, and 2 years after we still go. In fact most women prefer crossfit vs a gym due to the social aspect of it.
I'm already in really good shape. I know it is one of her issues that I'm in better shape than she is and doesn't believe that I don't want to be with a hardbody girl (or should I say used to have a hard time believing it.) I'm also not keen on doing crossfit. In fact I really dislike organized workouts in general.
 

Joeboo

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Olabass I would seriously rethink what you got going on there bro. If You as a semi attractive 42 yr old working man you could be scoring some prime 35+ yr old ass. Lifes too short to get yourself stagnated in a relationship or lack there of like you are in. Who cares if she cleans and cooks for you , you could get that and BJs every other night. Why work so hard if you have someone which does not appreciate/reciprocate it back. Bring some dam excitement back in your life, bro. i know its hard beause getting rid of the status quoe/familiarity is hard, but do it bro. You are too young to die a dick death.
Hell, at 42, as long as he's employed making a decent wage, isn't a druggie, and doesn't look like Gollums uglier brother, he can find some good women his age that would be into him. At that age, women are mostly past looking for 6-pack abs as their 1st requirement, and are on to looking for stepdad material/stable home as a primary requirement. He could be slaying some pussy if he's not a troll. Single women in their 40s have already had their "mistake" relationships/marriage and are hopefully smarter and not wanting to make that same bad choice again.