Dear Abby,
I need the advice of the council. I'm recently divorced. We've were seperated last august and just finished the paperwork on the divorce within the last couple weeks. I haven't really dated during the divorce except for one date with a crazy puerto rican and a one night stand and they just kinda fell on my lap, not because i was out looking for them. The entire time during the divorce I was telling myself I was going to enjoy being single and fuck everything I could after the divorce was final. Well I met this beautiful blonde this past Thursday. We clicked and I asked her out this Friday. We're going to get some sushi and check out some local music. We've been texting a lot and she seems really into me. She's 33 (I'm 31), a nurse, used to be a personal fitness trainer, in great shape, no kids, no red flags. Today she asked me if i wanted to take a day trip the beach this sunday. On one hand I think its fucking awesome to be dating again and going out and having some spontaneous fun with a gorgeous girl but there is a part of me that thinks we might be moving too fast. What say ye?