Marriage and the Power of Divorce

Soygen_sl said:

I've only dated one nurse(my current gf) and she's the least crazy girl I've ever dated. So either I've been dating a lot of lunatics(some for sure) or I lucked out on the level of crazy in my nurse. Reading this thread has really made me appreciate my relationship, though. I've started ring shopping. I think I'll be engaged by early next year.

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Hey way to go man, she already lives there and the kid stays too right? Good stuff.

My aunt is a nurse and she's crazy in a different way. She went to India without getting vaccinated (and is a t1 diabetic) and contracted typhoid. Now she is living on a ventilator for the rest of her life and has brain lesions.

Can't comment on her sex life, but she's probably shit in the bushes once or twice.

Soygen_sl said:

I've only dated one nurse(my current gf) and she's the least crazy girl I've ever dated. So either I've been dating a lot of lunatics(some for sure) or I lucked out on the level of crazy in my nurse. Reading this thread has really made me appreciate my relationship, though. I've started ring shopping. I think I'll be engaged by early next year.

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Thanks for the heads up, I'll have plenty of time to work on my speech

if picasso is invited im not going, he's gonna creep on my wife

sorry *crap on my wife

I think we're both italian. Are you doing family-style rolling brownouts?

fifey_sl said:

Met a nurse last night and got a next level blow job after drinking boxed wine in the park. I either met my future wife or she's gonna be sitting in my bushes.

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You know this does not have to be mutually exclusive right?

So I had the talk last night, aired the issues very bluntly and fully expected to be walking out shortly thereafter. Instead, she acknowledged the problems and offered thoughtful, level-headed ideas about how we ended up there and what might resolve the issues. She also admitted she got ahead of herself in the dating process (this is true) and apologized. She asked if we could take some time to see if things can be worked out. Whether or not we end up together long term, I do sincerely care about her. So I agreed.

I haven't been forthcoming with my concerns many times, probably because my ex-wife had a hair trigger from 0 to raging psychopath when we discussed things; think borderline abusive. Because of this, I let the "too much time together" thing fester and affect our personal connection... a lot. My realizations here, not hers.

I figure I'm playing with house money at this point. Either we CAN resolve the issues and our relationship benefits greatly, or I can walk away knowing I gave my best effort to make it work with someone I care about.

InB4 Haast pussied out LIKE A BOSS.

My wife is a nurse and she's the calmest, least crazy woman I've stuck my dick in.

The girl I fucked doggie in a park and blew a load on her tongue in broad daylight was also a nurse. All kinds in all professions. I do think nurses are way more ok with cum hitting them and other bodily fluids. Plus they dig toilet humor way more than most women.

My ex-wife is almost the craziest I've been with and she was a biotech manager. She was fucking nuts. Pulled a gun on me for calling her a cunt, camped outside my apartment during the divorce, and still let me tap it on occaision after the ink was dry. Great in bed outside of her semi-meh bj's.

Social workers are crazy to me. "Dated" a couple of those. Jesus. Drama all the fucking time. Also dated an older former ballerina. She was super crazy possessive after the first couple of dates, but she also had her entire body lasered (minus head and brows of course). I don't think I've ever touched a pussy that smooth. Maybe right after a new razor or a wax. And legs behind head. Easily.

Dirtiest slut I dated for a few months was a secretary with her poli sci degree that just knew she'd be in Washington one day. She lied to me about still being married and we bumped into her husband on a date. I dumped her a few days later after talking to her about it. He actually asked if he could watch. W. T. F. I'd spit and go on her ass and she'd a2m without asking. Always wanted to be choked out, tied up, ass smacked red, hair pulled, etc.

Haast not only did you do the right thing (and admitted your mistakes) but she did too. No need to rush into a breakup if you actually do care for her.

Tarrant_sl said:

Nah, I think you handled it well personally.

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Noodlemod_sl said:

Haast not only did you do the right thing (and admitted your mistakes) but she did too. No need to rush into a breakup if you actually do care for her.

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Thanks guys, I really appreciate it. My nerves are still frayed, it was a really stressful night.

Haast_sl said:

Thanks guys, I really appreciate it. My nerves are still frayed, it was a really stressful night.

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Give yourself some time, and realise that you weren't unreasonable, nor was she, and you care for her, so maybe there's some work to do, but you could come out really great on the other side.

fifey_sl said:

Correct, I'm very excited about this bad decision I'm about to make. I mean she took a load to the face on purpose and was very open about her fondness of butt stuff.

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She's going to shit in your bushes but only because you broke her O ring there

lurkingdirk_sl said:

Give yourself some time, and realise that you weren't unreasonable, nor was she, and you care for her, so maybe there's some work to do, but you could come out really great on the other side.

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Agreed. And thanks!

Haast_sl said:

Thanks guys, I really appreciate it. My nerves are still frayed, it was a really stressful night.

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Hopefully you got some "we just had an argument" make up sex. Good for you though, hopefully things change for the better.