The Ask Kuriin, A Gay Man, Anything Thread

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Blackyce

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How did you not get the AIDS?
Ever heard of safe sex?

My first HIV test was nerve racking though. Back in the late 80's getting a positive was a death sentence and the test took two weeks to come back with the results and you met with a councilor at the clinic for your results in case they were positive.
 

Blackyce

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Either he did or he was very consistent with his condom use. =P And very little to no IDU. I don't believe needle exchange was even implemented back then, so can't count on that.
My last HIV test was a year ago when I had my last physical, still HIV- thank you. Living in SF during the late 80's safe sex was drilled into you. I also had to many friends die of AIDS back then as well. Sadly the whole safe sex thing has mostly been left at the door with your generation. I've known a few people who have become HIV+ in the last few years and that's something that in this day and age, should never happen via sex.
 

iannis

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That is correct. 1985 was a very good year. I have no idea what the going rates are though these days.
That's a lot of money for 20 minutes of not-work, back in 1985 dollars.

Gas was what? Like 60 cents a gallon.

Well, maybe like 80 in SF.
 

Wuyley_sl

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When it comes to your typical gay couples is one usually the "pitcher" and one the "catcher", does the couple change it up, or is it based on personal preference/case-by-case basis?
 

Kuriin

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Case by case. Some people only top, some only bottom, some go both ways, some have a preference to being a top or a bottom but can go both ways. (Top, Bottom, Versatile, Versa-Top, Versa-Bottom).
 

iannis

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Jesus. 25 bucks for getting your dick sucked? That's STILL not bad money. You guys are really underselling the profit angle of manwhoring. Change the approach and you can turn out half of this nation without all the political fuss.

I tell you whut.
 

Blackyce

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Jesus. 25 bucks for getting your dick sucked? That's STILL not bad money. You guys are really underselling the profit angle of manwhoring. Change the approach and you can turn out half of this nation without all the political fuss.

I tell you whut.
Honestly I don't know how good being a Hustler would be today though. Back in the 70's and 80's (85 is when I was a hustler), coming out was a HUGE issue. There were many more guys who were in the closet than there are now. Oh I'm sure there are still a good number of guys in the closet, especially in rural areas but still not as many as when I first came out. It's much more accepted today and I'm still amazed that many young adults have 0 hangups with it. There were probably many more guys looking for hustlers because they were closeted. Plus then there are things like Craig's List and the internet in general making quick anonymous hook ups so much easier than when I was 19.
 

Cad

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Honestly I don't know how good being a Hustler would be today though. Back in the 70's and 80's (85 is when I was a hustler), coming out was a HUGE issue. There were many more guys who were in the closet than there are now. Oh I'm sure there are still a good number of guys in the closet, especially in rural areas but still not as many as when I first came out. It's much more accepted today and I'm still amazed that many young adults have 0 hangups with it. There were probably many more guys looking for hustlers because they were closeted. Plus then there are things like Craig's List and the internet in general making quick anonymous hook ups so much easier than when I was 19.
I'm almost 40 and I don't have any hangups about gay dudes, I'm just a little grossed out by all the anal shit... err... stuff. To be fair I'm kinda grossed out by anal with women just the same. The eating of asses and such Kuriin describes is goddamn nasty, male or female.
 

TheBeagle

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I just don't know why anyone would rather be a bottom than a top...the whole point of being a man is sticking your dick in things, heh.
 

OneofOne

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I'm almost 40 and I don't have any hangups about gay dudes, I'm just a little grossed out by all the anal shit... err... stuff. To be fair I'm kinda grossed out by anal with women just the same. The eating of asses and such Kuriin describes is goddamn nasty, male or female.
+1
 

zombiewizardhawk

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Kuriin, what happens if 2 bottoms hit it off at a gay bar? A guy I work with gave me one answer and i'm curious how similar your answer will be to his.
 

Kuriin

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Why do people always ask the same question over and over? It is the exact same as lesbians having sex. NO ONE KNOWS. It is a myth.
 

Hekotat

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Kuriin,

I saw that Dragon Age: Inquisition will have a fully gay character. Do you or the gay community give two shits about this and does it compel you to play the game more because of it?

(Lame question I know.)
 

Vaclav

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Haha. Nope. I've never had the fantasy of sleeping with astraightguy. However, I would do so much with Patrick Dempsey (mmMMMmmmM). Dempsey, McKellen, and Stewart in a fourway with me. Oh gawd. /shoot
Jon Stewart as part of a fantasy? Oh lawd.
 

Creslin

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Kuriin, what happens if 2 bottoms hit it off at a gay bar? A guy I work with gave me one answer and i'm curious how similar your answer will be to his.
Bottom or top gets overblown imo, its a preference not a sex like male female nothing prevents them switching it up. Most guys I know consider themselves versatile for hookups until they get into a long term relationship which tends to fall into roles more. If they are pure bottoms tho refer to kuriin's answer lol
 

iannis

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I kinda feel like it would be ok to stop celebrating July 4 seeing as how it's been over 200 years now and our federalism is as dysfunctional as the kings government ever was. Does this make me gay?

Bear in mind I think cocks are just great.
 

Kuriin

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Jon Stewart as part of a fantasy? Oh lawd.
No. Patrick Stewart.

@Hekotat: I personally don't give a shit. However, it's kind of a "win" for the gay community.

edit: In regards to the bottom/top. Everyone has their preferences, yep. As I mentioned before, you can be: Top, Bottom, Versatile, Versa-Bottom, or Versa-Top. Some people only do frottage (for various reasons), and others only do oral. A lot of people are scarred from the 80s of having to go to hundreds of friends' funerals that they don't do anal sex anymore.

Iannis: You are so gay. A/S/L?